![]() It takes a lot of friction for two white people to get that close. ![]() ![]() How many white men can treat a woman like a lady and ravish her too? I often felt in my White Period that only during heated sex does that little layer of air bubbles between me and the world pop and disappear, leaving me open to intimate connection. I can let go of my inhibitions, my need to control, when I am with them. They make me feel like a woman, both respected and desired. Yet black men are gentlemen, something else white men no longer are. White men appear to be waiting for the latest sociological research study to let them know if they are men or not. Black men have something white guys don't have anymore: confidence in their masculinity, their sexuality. A black man is so damned sexy because he knows how to make a woman feel sexy. They know how to flirt, a nearly lost art among the rest of us. Black men have more energy, style and edge than white men. When we get to the "yes, baby" place, they know it, and they are ready and waiting for us. It's a "yes, baby, now I'm ready for you" reaction. ![]() According to one school of thought, white women turn to black men when their sex drives kick into higher gear and their social inhibitions recede into the rearview mirror. Yes, the sex! The woman who goes after black men is a variant of sex journalist Susie Bright's "white bitch in heat," a woman who puts sex first even though women aren't supposed to do that. But in truth, black sisters, we're after the sex, not the ringand these guys aren't the marrying kind anyway. Black women can point to that statistic in justifying their wrath. Black men are two and a half times more likely to marry a white woman than a black woman is to marry a white man. We are what they denigrate and castigate: white women and black men who choose one another because of our racial differences. We have race-specific desires.Įven in a time when nearly 40 percent of single Americans have dated outside their race, that deliberate seeking of the specific other makes some people, especially black women, damned mad. We are not the same people who say: Race is not important. Women write: seeking tall, dark, and handsome. The Internet has made it a lot easier for us to find each other now. Not as politically-correct men and women do we seek one another out. We are not those couples who "happen to fall in love" with someone of a different race or more purposefully come together but out of some greater sense of interracial understanding and respect. And our attraction is based first on race. We look at one another and exchange a visible frisson of sexual energy in the lingering glances. Enough white men want me that I was hardly facing enforced celibacy, but I don't want them. The truth is, I attract about the same percentage of available white men my age (and far younger!) now as I did when I was thirty and that's not including the unavailable white men who want to play around anyway. It's not me, it's them being the white guys who weren't after me anymore, or so I claimed. Black men are happy to get the babe they couldn't have when she was twentysomething and fertile. She goes younger or ethnic or foreign-born or down the socioeconomic scale or darker or she spends lonely nights at home with her cats. A white woman past forty is often passed over by her white-male contemporaries. I used that paucity-of-available-white-partners rationale to explain my relationships with black men for several years. And I had the socially acceptable explanation for my craving. That phrase, "Once you go black, you never go back" is all about the feeling of the skin. I craved it more strongly than Carrie Bradshaw craved Manolo Blahnik shoes. The first time I caressed black skin, it felt like a luxury I shouldn't be able to afford. There's only one patch of skin on a white man's body that remotely compares to nearly every inch of a black man's skin. If you’ve got a celebrity story, video or pictures get in touch with the .uk entertainment team by emailing us calling 020 3615 2145 or by visiting our Submit Stuff page – we’d love to hear from you.Black skin is thick and lush, sensuous to the touch, like satin and velvet made flesh. uk has contacted reps for Hugh and Deborra-Lee for a comment. Your laughter, your spirit, generosity, humor, cheekiness, courage and loyalty is an incredible gift to me. ‘Together we have created a beautiful family. Taking to Instagram, the superhero star shared a snap as they embraced, with the caption: ‘I love you Deb. They also celebrated their 27th wedding anniversary just a few months ago, with Hugh sharing a dedicating a loving social media post to his now-ex.
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